What is Coaching?
You’ve got questions. We’ve got answers to some popular questions about coaching:
Professional Coaching is a professional partnership between a qualified coach and an individual or team that supports the achievement of extraordinary results, based on goals set by the individual or team. Through the process of coaching, individuals focus on the skills and actions needed to successfully produce their personally relevant results. Coaches:
- Help people set better goals and then reach those goals.
- Ask their clients to do more than they would have done on their own.
- Focus their clients better to more quickly produce results.
- Provide the tools, support and structure to accomplish more.
Consulting While consulting approaches vary widely, there is often an assumption that the consultant diagnoses problems and prescribes and sometimes implements solutions. In general, the assumption with coaching is that individuals or teams are capable of generating their own solutions, with the coach supplying supportive, discovery-based approaches and frameworks.
Therapy Coaching is not therapy. We don't work on "issues" or get into the past or deal much with understanding human behavior. We leave that up to the client to know and figure out while we help them move forward and set personal and professional goals that will give them the life they really want.
Sports Coaching includes several principles from sports coaching, like teamwork, going for the goal, being your best. But unlike sports coaching, most professional coaching is not competition or win/lose-based. We strengthen the client's skills vs. help them beat the other team. It's win/win.
Best friend A best friend is wonderful to have. But is your best friend a professional whom you will trust to advise you on the most important aspects of your life and/or business? Have a best friend and a coach.
Simply put, that we humans are great, that we're all discovering what we really want and that we get can get what we want faster and easier by having a coach who's been there and who can help us.
People hire a coach because:
- They want more.
- They want to be clearer about what they really want more of.
- They want to grow.
- They want it easier.
It's as simple as that. Coaches help you get further, faster, than you would likely get on your own.
Many things, but the most important are:
- You take yourself more seriously.
- You take more effective and focused actions immediately.
- You stop putting up with what is dragging you down.
- You create momentum so it's easier to get results.
- You set better goals that you might not have without the coach.
Usually both. And with the line between personal and business life often blurred, the coach is the only professional trained to work with all aspects of you.
We focus where the client needs us most. And we tend to weave in the following discussions:
- Getting the client's Personal Foundation strengthened.
- Helping the client beef up their Reserve.
- Helping the client set goals based on their Personal Values.
By including these with what the client wants from us, we help the client have fewer problems and focus on what's going to make them the most successful. We've found that clients really enjoy the approach.
Coaching works for several reasons:
- Synergy between the coach and client creates momentum.
- Better goals are set -- ones that naturally pull the client toward the goal rather than goals that require the client to push themselves to the goal.
- The client develops new skills, and these skills translate into more success.
Coaching is becoming popular for several reasons:
- Many people are tired of doing what they "should" do and are ready to do something special and meaningful for the rest of their lives. The challenge is, many can't see it, or if they can, they can't see a way to re-orient their life around it. A coach can help them do both.
- People are realizing how simple it can be to accomplish something that several years ago might have felt out of reach or like a pipe dream. A coach is not a miracle worker (well, sometimes they are) but a coach does have a large tool kit to help the Big Idea become a reality. Fortunately, people now have time and resources to invest in themselves for this kind of growth.
- Spirituality. People are increasingly looking for answers to some deep questions and many turn to spirituality for direction. Many coaches are spiritually based -- even the ones who coach IBM and AT&T. (One working definition of spirituality: “How connected you are with yourself and others.") The coach helps clients tune in better to themselves and others.
A personal coach does just what an athletic coach or music teacher does, only in a more complete and bigger way. A coach challenges you and takes the time to find out what winning in life means to you. A coach is your partner in living the life you know you can accomplish, personally and professionally. A coach is someone to hold you accountable for your life, to make sure you really do live up to your potential. No matter where you are in life, there is always a desire for more. More success, more money, closer relationships, a deeper feeling of meaning in life, etc. It is the nature of people to want to attain more, become more, be more, and we all struggle with how to get what we're looking for.
Most people believe that "hard work and doing it on your own" are the keys to finding the life, success, money, or happiness that they seek. They believe that a price must be paid to attain what they want, and often that price is poor health, not having enough time to enjoy life, strained family relationships or lessened productivity. The saddest part is that, even though this effort may result in more of something, it is often not the something you had in mind, and you are back where you started, or worse, further from your real intentions. Athletes and performers know about this trap. They know they need someone else, a trained someone else to help them set goals, discover real needs, and work effectively toward ultimate goals of excellence. So, they are willing to hire a coach or a teacher. No serious athlete or musician would expect to progress very far without one.
They might not need a coach. But it is helpful to find out: Are they doing what they most enjoy? Are they tolerating anything? Is life easy? Are they going to be financially independent within the next 15 years? Do they have what they most want? We've discovered that often, people need to expect more out of their lives. A coach can help in this process.
Not really. The client may rely on the coach in order to maximize an opportunity or accelerate their growth, yet not be "dependent" on the coach. Anyone who's up to something big can benefit from structure, advice, support and having a place to brag, so in that sense, the coach is necessary. But an emotional, psychological dependency is not created. The coach works with people who are just fine and strong enough on their own. Remember, we're not here to fix something that is broken. The coach is helping the client to create a better future: More success, more money, and a higher quality of life.
No. How? We aren't doing psychological work. We're not trying to control the client's thinking. We're not cattle prods; we're partners.
Yes. Some clients hire a coach to help them accomplish specific goals or projects. Usually, however, the client keeps working with the coach after that because there are even more interesting things to accomplish.
Most coaches ask for a three- to six-month commitment but usually let you stop immediately if coaching is not working for you right now. Very few coaches ask for a written contract. For the corporate client, however, a signed agreement is simply good business.
While it of course varies by coach, most coaches working with individuals charge between $200 to $500 per month for approximately 2 to 3 hours of coaching (divided into 40 to 60 minute calls). Executive coaches charge more, while corporate coaching or corporate programs often run $1,000 to $10,000 per month.